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As you may have seen in earlier posts my husband and I are still busy building our own patio area from beautiful natural stone, which hopefully will be finished before Summer. Can't wait to dress it up with furniture, cushions and pot plants. The rockery plants are in place already.
To give you and myself some inspiration, I selected some great images to get our creative thinking going...
How romantic is this...! Image: La Belle Vie
How to create this eclectic garden chandelier, read it on www.sunset.com
And another wonderful alternative chandelier
Not exactly a patio area, but wouldn't you love to have your al-fresco Summer lunch here? Image: Modern Interior Design
I have a thing for colourful cushions, like necklaces, you just can't have enough of them! Image: My Deco
Even small balconies can be transformed into wonderful spaces. Image: Houzz
Indoor furniture doesn't have to stay indoors! Image: House to Home
Get your vintage linens out to create a wonderful country chic dinner table. Image: House to Home
Yup, told you so, get those vintage linens out. What a lovely French style patio! Image: House to Home
And of course...an example from Stockholm, where we'll be heading for our Summer holidays. Great use of a tiny roof terrace! Image: Pitut.com
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Don't know about you, but I am really looking forward to Summer now...hope you like this post. How do you create that individual look on your outdoor area?
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Only a short post today. Just wanted to share how excited I am that I found this beautiful tiny cottage near Stockholm, which we've now booked for a week this Summer. I love the painted white wooden walls and the eclectic mix of furniture. Yup - right up my street. It's got a beach, kayaks, a barbecue, a sauna and gorgeous views onto the archipelago. And still within cycling distance of the city buzz (yes, bicycles also come with the cottage!). Bring it on!
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I stumbled across this article and thought I would post it. It has great advice on what to say and what NOT to say to someone who is grieving the loss of a baby or miscarriage.
What Do I Say??
It's hard to know what to say to a grieving parent. Our own fear of loss can render us immobile. And sometimes people feel like they have to think of the "perfect" thing to say. There is no "perfect" thing to say. There is nothing you can say to heal the grief of losing a child. But acknowledging and supporting grief is a way to help healing. Please know that the effort of talking about the baby, the loss, and the sadness will be appreciated, even if it's not "perfect."
Some Things NOT to Say:
- "It was God's will."
- "It was meant to be" or "it was for the best."
- "Your baby is in a better place now."
- "Time heals all wounds."
- "I know just how you feel." (Unless you have personally experienced the loss of a baby.)
- "It's been ___ amount of time and aren't you over it yet? It's time to get on with your life."
- "At least you have other children" or "At least you can have other children." ( I HATE THIS ONE!)
- "Now you will have an angel in heaven."
- "It could have been worse..." It could not have been worse. Not to the grieving parent.
Some Things You Can Say (and do)
- "Who can I call for you? Let me help gather loving support around you."
- "Cry when you need to because I know your tears are helping you grieve."
- "This child was unique, special and irreplaceable. I know children are not interchangeable and the fact that you can have other children does not lessen the grief of losing this one."
- "Talk to me, share your thoughts, feelings and memories of your baby. I know that you haven't forgotten your baby or your pain just because I'm afraid to mention it."
- "When you've decided what you want to do with your baby's clothes, toys and furniture, I'll help you sort through it all. And if you need to cry, I'll bring the tissues."
- "Let me take your baby's sibling to the park, read a story or tickle their toes. I know you don't feel like laughing or playing right now."
- "I'm going to run errands now—is there anything I can pick up or do for you?
- "Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to heal."
- "There is no particular way you 'should' feel or things you 'should' do. There are no rules about how grieving should go."
- "Don't worry about your baby's brothers and sisters at the funeral—I'll watch them and give them extra love and attention."
- "I'll be over to pick up your baby's brother or sister to take them to school, Grandma's house, or to their soccer game—I'll even stay and cheer them on! And I'll listen to their feelings about losing a baby brother or sister. They need to know their world is safe even though yours doesn't feel that way right now."
- "I'll help fill out medical forms, walk the dog, pay bills or answer the phone. I understand that it's hard to deal with the mundane details of life right now."
- "I know it seems like a long time, but you don't have to 'get over' the loss of your baby on any time table. You'll feel better when you do and I'll still be here."
- "Tell me more about your pregnancy and your baby...I'm interested and I'm not tired of hearing the same stories. I know sometimes you need to keep going over those events until they seem real and more tolerable."
- "Wasn't it a year ago that you lost your baby? How about we go for a walk or out to lunch. And I'll remember this day next year and the year after."
- "How are you doing today? If you don't feel like answering the phone, I'll just leave a message to let you know that I love you and was thinking about you. I'm sure you'll return my call when you feel up to it."
- "I've found a list of local support groups in your community, synagogue or church and I'll take you if you'd like to go."
- "I understand if you're having a hard time being my friend when I have a new baby and you've lost yours. I love you and I'll be here when you're ready."
- "Don't feel guilty because you laughed today."
- "I'm here. Call me any time of the day or night. I'll cry with you, I'll listen to you and I'll even laugh with you. I'll always have tissues."
How to Help
Please do not stay away or ignore the loss. Bereaved parents need your loving support. Not speaking about it does not lessen its reality. Bring up the subject, and be prepared for tears. Nothing you say will ever make the bereaved parent sadder than the reality of losing a child. Simply allowing a safe space for them to grieve without denying that grief is all that's required of you. Remember, it is usually the simple things you say or do that mean so much.Article from http://www.babylosscomfort.com/what-do-i-say/
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Me in my Pippi outfit, age...8?
Our packed green Lada with matching canoe in Norway early nineties
And now I want to go back! I have been googling like mad on the hunt for the perfect holiday cottage by a lake (Glenn doesn't share my Dutch love of camping) and trying to find the easiest way to get to Sweden from Scotland in July. One week relaxing in one place and another week touring around and visiting various places including Stockholm. Lakes, canoes, camp fires and endless Summer evenings combined with a visit to one of the hippest design cities in Europe. Sounds like a plan. Shame it's still only March.
Image: DianeCA
I love the simple, functional but beautiful 'Scandi style'; pure, natural materials, clean lines, quality products and fresh, happy colours. No unnecessary decoration, but form follows function. Here are some inspirational photos featured on Scandinavian design blogs and designer websites:
A bright and airy space featured on the blog From Scandinavia with Love
A bathroom featured on the wonderful design blog by Stockholm-based Emma
Colourful products by Darling Clementine, Norwegian design agency inspired by the past and their Scandinavian design heritage.
Lots more to drool about on design blog Roomservice
Great looking 'retro' tableware by Swedish brand Sagaform
More great home decor on Tinaminastina's blog
Beautiful, durable woven rugs made out of plastic, designed and made in Sweden by Pappelina
Did I miss any good Scandinavian blogs and sites? Anyone been to Stockholm recently - share some tips with me please! And if anyone knows the perfect Swedish lakeside cottage, please share the details with me - thanks! :-)
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